Translated from Russian by Google Translate
2 Сентябрь 2009

What place do trade in our lives

Have you ever wondered about how to relate to the surrounding of your trade? They consider it an exercise in futility, or think forex trading is perhaps the only means of ensuring a decent living? In fact, the opinion of others is very important. So, as you would treat your loved ones, as they will support you, depends very much. And above all - it is your confidence in the future.


Agree that if you daily crushing load constant reproaches, in such a situation is very difficult to concentrate and function normally, so that any work requires perseverance, patience and perseverance, and in particular trade in forex. Below I will give an interesting conversation. In principle, it has already become a classic, because there are clear enough, many nuances, which, as it may seem at first glance, is not sufficiently substantial.

Talk spouses:

«Hello, dear», - she called indifferent, seeing as her husband sits with his face to the screen.

«As today was shopping day?»

«Bad enough», - he answered, feeling the growing pressure under her gaze.

«What is good enough? You made a profit, just like yesterday? »

«Unfortunately, no, because around about 21 hours, I had to go away on business, but this time out important news. Naturally, I did not realize it, because it missed, and ended up losing all profit »

«Wait, so far ended positively? You got at least some profit? »

«Not quite. I lost 50 points »

«What? And why are you just now said about this? », - She said, significantly raising his voice. «Why did not explicitly say that I lost today, more than 400 $?»

«Do not boil, dear», - he said. «It’s just one day. Do not draw conclusions on the results of one day », - he parried.

«No, no and no. All these are your losses suggest that you simply throw our money down the drain. Every day you’re sitting at this damn screen and you lose money. All that you call analysis, in fact, means nothing. All the time that you are sitting at night for the screen, goes for nothing, because there comes a new day, and again you lose ».

«Wait a minute, dear. Well, why are you so? I’m just learning and I really need your support. In order to become consistently profitable, it will take time. And, possibly, a lot of time. No need to put pressure on me ».

«Consistently profitable? Ha-ha-ha », - she laughed. «You - consistently losing, and since you claim to be a consistent player, I will try to give you assistance. Yes. I will return to the Rescue “seriously ill, because your Forex trading - this is a real illness».

«Honey, stop it so to speak. Do not skeptical attitude. I need step by step to move to her happiness. I need to become successful »

«I’ll tell you one thing: happiness it would take away from us all money. I do not want to maintain your occupation ».

How do you feel after such a conversation can still continue to trade with great confidence and optimism? I think that in this respect, we can no longer trade.

It’s hard enough to trade on the currency market if you know that you do not support the people closest to you. Due to the oppressive pressure which they have, you are trading in a depressed state. But forex trading is no different from other activities where success comes not only from your attitude to yourself, but also on the attitude of people close to you.

This is where well-suited two life advice:

1. Convince yourself that you can become rich
2. Tune in and be ready for what you can become rich

Consider these items separately

The belief that one can become rich

Ubiquitous analysts have determined that the key to the success of many famous people who have achieved success in trading forex, was in several important points:

1. Suggest to me what exactly you are driving their own destiny, rather than the people close to you
2. Be responsible
3. Constantly say to yourself: «I can. I shall accomplish its goal »
4. You must understand one simple thing: nothing is impossible
5. If you do not risk anything, you get nothing in return
6. I know what I need the money
7. If you become more resourceful, you’re progressing, and your Forex trading becomes more profitable
8. Be sure to understand that success was never built on success, except in rare cases. Success is built on the losses, failures and, in some cases, even at major fiasco.
9. If you do something for myself have decided, make sure you beat at one point, to achieve their goal by any means
10. Love his occupation

Willingness to what you will become rich

I know one person who trades on the New York Stock Exchange. He himself was born in Russia, so we try to maintain contact with him. At present, it can be classified as successful traders. Because almost every day, he earns about $ 1000. But the problem lies in the fact that he, for all his desire can not do more than this amount. His grandfather, also experienced traders about how to, and grandson, earns about $ 1000. Therefore, this trader formed a kind of barrier in 1000, jump to it’s capacity.

Why do I bring this example? Because such a situation occurs quite often. Particularly acute this problem is for beginners who still can not believe that Forex trading can bring normal money.

In general, this is a natural psychological barrier, which is not devoid of trading forex. Therefore, the second quality, which should possess - is the ability to adjust itself to break stereotypes, one of which is the money barrier.